Relationships vs Love

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People have a great evil when it comes to relationships, especially in not knowing how to distinguish things.
Not always an attention that another gives, means it's love. That a smile, a affection, a call or talking to you all day through a communicator or Social Network, that she is already loving you.
It is often just what it is. And not love.
Going out to laugh, to relax and even have sex, doesn't mean love. It's just that, going out and having sex.
Today's man and woman have become so emotionally dependent that they think "having sex" means she or he "loves me."
Love is more than all that. And this all together. And yet people can be affectionate, give attention and be honest with others without needing to love. This happens constantly between parents and children, longtime friends who play ball on the weekends, between friends who spend hours and hours talking and giving attention to each other when they need it and a teacher at school with her students. And even a stranger on the street.
And that's not why it became love.
Does insincerity about your own feelings create an anxiety of “will I be hurt” or “will I be hurt”?

  • If I'm paying attention, does it mean I love that person?
  • If she gives me so much affection, is it because she loves me?

No!
It's just that. Heads up! Kindness! Okay, nothing more.
Humanity needs to stop confusing things. When you receive or want to give something, give and receive! Be honest with yourself about who you are.
If you want to go out there that only involves the pleasure of the body, with sex, so be it! Don't think that from now on it needs to become a love relationship.
Sincerity is everything. The invention of relationships, which is humanity's greatest sin.

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